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Slowly losing it

There is a cricket in my wall and it has been there for 3 days.  I know that it superstition that its a sign of good fortune coming our way-- like a baby, or money. but I will give anything to make it shut up!!!

Anything driving you insane?

Re: Slowly losing it

  • Yes insurance companies. I got into a car wreck Friday and have been dealing with it since. $1250 worth of damage.
  • Having pink eye. I hate it. But at least I was able to nip it in the bud by using some of the leftover antibiotic drops I had from the last time, so it isn't nearly as bad as it could be, and I could still come to work today.

    But I am slowly loosing my patience with my parents. Hopefully soon. Hopefully soon.
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  • A few things are driving me crazy.

    1. DH is so sensitive. He got new glasses. I didn't help him pick them out. I really don't like them. I didn't tell him I didn't like them but I did say that I wish I would have been there to have helped him choose a pair. I said I have to get used to him in them because he looks so different. He got really upset and mad at me. I feel bad but I was just being honest.

    2. My co-teacher treats me just as a substitute. I didn't know there was a staff meeting on Tuesday so I didn't go. She didn't mention it to me at all. I got in trouble for not going. Also, my co-teacher had an informal meeting with the other 5th grade teachers yesterday during our prep period. I didn't even know about it. My principal saw me in my room alone. She brought up the fact that I wasn't there and I have to start acting like part of the "team". Ugh! I am trying my best to be part of the team, but I'm being excluded! The 5th grade teachers are all friends outside of school, how am I supposed to just jump into their little group and become one of them?!

    3. I feel like a single mom because DH isn't home 2 or 3 nights a week. He stays at his parents because his job is an hour away from where we live but only 10 minutes away from where they live. It's hard on me to be the only parent at home after a long day of teaching.

    4. I want to go to Park City, Utah to ski this coming Jan or Feb, but DH says we can't afford it. We can make it work, but he thinks we should pay off our bills instead. He's no fun

    5. I have the desire to get back to the gym but I have no one to watch Liliana and the daycare at the gym won't take babies that are under 6 months old.


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  • Oh yeah.

    1. There is a guy in on my classes that is consistently arguing with the prof about how the class is set up. It's the most annoying thing to read. GRRRRR. Suck it up and do it or drop the class. Nobody ever said the class was an easy "A"

    2. My extremely naughty two year old cat. He's flipping over his food dish, getting on top of the fridge and just being a jerk.

    3. My car. 500 dollars worth of repairs and it still isn't all the way fixed. Then my step-dad telling me "I could have done that." Yes I know you could have. Sadly, it had to been done NOW. I couldn't wait for you to drag your feet and two months later, it gets fixed

     

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  • TaraW1979 said:
     Ugh! I am trying my best to be part of the team, but I'm being excluded! The 5th grade teachers are all friends outside of school, how am I supposed to just jump into their little group and become one of them?!
    I am so angry for you... They are excluding you on purpose and you are getting in trouble for it.
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  • MeganNN12MeganNN12 member
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    #2 The way the other 5th grade teachers are treating you is absolutely horrible. I would not be able to work with a "team" like the one you are on. Do you receive emails from the school? If not maybe you could mention it to the principal. The position you are in is so hard. I hope things get better.
    #3 I've felt this way too and made the mistake of telling dh once. If I were you I would explain to your dh how important it is that he comes home every night regardless of distance. My h drives an hour to work and an hour back 5 days a week. If he would sleep somewhere other than our home I would be really upset. You deserve a break too. You are right that it is not fair. If he has to sleep at his parent's house ask him if he could cut it down to once a week.

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  • #3 Sorry about your car. Ours just got towed to the shop. I am hoping it is not too expensive to fix.
    I hope the cricket finds a way out soon so you can get some sleep.
    Mine are being stuck at home with no car, dh's car being broken, and being refused insurance coverage because of my fibroids.

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  • Thanks = ) Sadly, car repairs are a sad fact of owning one.

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  • I wish technology could be like Star Trek and I could be transported. Beam me up. Then I would never have to drive again.
  • Never driving again would be awesome. P is driving me crazy. He's stressing about getting the house painted to sell. He keeps asking his mom to come over and watch Lily so we can paint. This is stressing me out because I have a crazy amount of homework. It would be easier to have his mom help paint so I can work on homework. (Painting keeps getting cancelled due to rain) and can he not paint without me? I'm the only one packing, cleaning and rearranging inside.
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  • MeganNN12 said:
    #3 Sorry about your car. Ours just got towed to the shop. I am hoping it is not too expensive to fix.
    I hope the cricket finds a way out soon so you can get some sleep.
    Mine are being stuck at home with no car, dh's car being broken, and being refused insurance coverage because of my fibroids.
    Isn't this illegal? I thought that they can't deny you coverage due to a pre existing condition?

  • TaraW1979 said:
     Ugh! I am trying my best to be part of the team, but I'm being excluded! The 5th grade teachers are all friends outside of school, how am I supposed to just jump into their little group and become one of them?!
    I am so angry for you... They are excluding you on purpose and you are getting in trouble for it.
    This is how my 5th grade core is too!! IT IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ANNOYING!.  I would tell your principal about all of this.  I would be honest and say that you didn't want to cause friction, but now they are making you look bad. 
  • MeganNN12 said:
    #3 Sorry about your car. Ours just got towed to the shop. I am hoping it is not too expensive to fix.
    I hope the cricket finds a way out soon so you can get some sleep.
    Mine are being stuck at home with no car, dh's car being broken, and being refused insurance coverage because of my fibroids.
    Isn't this illegal? I thought that they can't deny you coverage due to a pre existing condition?
    They said I would be able to get insurance January 1st once obamacare takes effect or after I got an ultrasound done and got cleared by the doctor. Who has the money to pay  for an ultrasound out of pocket? It is maddening.

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  • Uggg.... Just so frustrated for you all...

    But I will go back to my usual phrase... You are the age you teach.
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  • I am so mad.  I was helping teach a 5th grade math for a couple of kids that needed extra help.  Today, I got my group taken away because they don't think I am capable of doing it. 

    Back to crying....
    :((
  • I'm sorry Jen. Are they tough kids? Or just the people you work with?
  • The 5th grade core doesn't think that I am smart enough or qualified enough to each their kids math intervention.
  • TaraW1979TaraW1979 member
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    Thanks guys for your advice. Sorry I am just getting back to you now. The principal actually called me into her office on Thursday morning. She said I need to stop acting like a substitute and more like a real teacher. (I wanted to say that my co-teacher treats me like a sub, but I didn't say that.) She mentioned that I wasn't at the staff meeting, that I wasn't in my team's "informal" meeting, that she thinks I leave a minute or two early each day, and that I was on the computer when my students were in technology class and I should have been walking around assisting. I didn't want to talk back to her but I did say sorry for missing the staff meeting and that I felt real bad about it but did not miss it on purpose, I really just didn't know about it. Also, I said that my co-workers on my team are all really close friends outside of school and I'm trying my best to make my way into their group. She was right about me leaving at 3:28, instead of 3:30 I really thought it was 3:20 when we could leave ,but I didn't tell her that because I didn't want to talk back.

    I was actually crying (in the restroom, no one saw me) on Thursday when I left the principal's office. It makes me so mad that I already "got in trouble" and it's only the third week of school. I'm trying so hard to make a great impression. Hopefully the principal has not already made up her mind about me.


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  • I am sorry Tara. I do think you should have tried to explain yourself though. I know it is too late now, but I hope she hasn't made her mind up either.
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  • I feel like my last post may have come across the wrong way. Hindsight is always 20/20. What I meant is that in the future, you really need to stand up for yourself. You can't be a part of the team if they purposefully exclude you from everything. The principal needs to know if they aren't treating you that way.
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  • I hear ya, but I'm just afraid of coming across like I am talking back. Sometimes it's better to just nod and not say anything rather than saying any thing at all.

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  • I know. I am not good at speaking up for myself either, but some of my good coworkers told me I need to.
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